Ok ok back off I know I haven’t been very good at keeping up on my blog lately, but saying I have been busy would be an understatement. Working, trying to move out of my flat, trying to find a new job, and planning for my first visitor..etc. have kept me on my toes. With all of that nonsense I have had some fun moments, which brings me to the mismash that this particular blog will end up being.
I wish I could lie to you all and say everything has been perfect and wonderful and easy, but like I said that would be a lie. Not everything is all bad and not everything is perfect. I refuse however to turn this blog into a bitchfest so welcome to the roller coaster this last month has been.
The beginning of March included getting use to a new job and continuing to deal with my less than desirable flatmates. After our last fight about cleaning and such the entire house has been pretty quiet, almost like we are all avoiding each other. Which isn’t the most healthy envirment but it definitely has let me catch up on some much needed sleep.
This is what the beginning of Spring looks like here.


Towards the middle of the month I was considering taking a trip to Ireland for St. Paddy’s day. I was so close to booking a trip, then decided to save my money and travel in April instead. Plus it would be nice to actually travel around with someone, especially to places I haven’t been. Anyway, since I wasn’t going to hang out in Ireland for the day, I found a few in town activites to check out. I know most of you think drinking IS the activity on St. Paddy’s, but I think its fun to also see some traditional music being played etc. Which is why I headed to one of the most Irish parts or London, Willesden Green (I’m actually really proud I now know that!) It was the only part of the city that had a parade and a bunch of other Irish type shenanigans going on. At first I went over with a girl from work, but quickly learned she had no interest in celebrating as she had to go to work. Plus she called all of the bars I wanted to go in “Dodgy”, mind you she is from Austin, TX. Either way, as soon as we parted ways I had a lot more fun. First I found where the bagpipes were playing and shuffled into the crowd to enjoy the music.
Afterwards I wandered into all of the so called dodgy bars and had a cider in each. The first one I went to was super packed but the bartender was cool and I met a nice lady who had a shirt filled with Irish pride type pins. Basically the plan was to head towards the tube while stopping in all of the Irish pubs then head home. This plan quickly went away. Second I ended up in this cool pub that was serving Irish stew for free with your beer or cider, perfect free dinner! Also they were playing this weird game on the TV that I was having a hard time following, of course I first considered that maybe I had already had too much too drink..but really 3 ciders and I can’t follow a simple soccer game. So I asked someone sitting at the bar and they said it was Gaelic football, still don’t understand it completely but here is the wikipedia link in case you want to find out more http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaelic_football Interesting right?! Once I was done with my stew I headed to my last bar of the evening, or so I thought. It was a pub literally across the street from the tube, so I thought oh I will just pop in for one last drink then go home. HAHA that is so not what happened. Instead I went in, ordered a cider and stood for a while at one of those standing side tables. Until I noticed there were seats open at a table with an older woman and a young man (presumably her son) I asked if the seat was taken and they said no and invited me to sit. For a few mins we minded our own business, they went along talking and I just hung out to finish my cider. That was until they asked if I was Irish or Irish American, I said no I can’t trace my family back there. They said thats ok, you are for today. They introduced themselves as Mary and James, and we started talking. Soon, Shamus the father showed up and drink kept appearing in front of me, especially after I stupidly told them how much I enjoyed Jameson. Then another son showed up and this lovely Irish family had me completely bombed, I tried to stop and say no thanks but saying no to alcohol in the UK has so far backfired completely. So then i tried to buy a round, which also took a lot of convincing. Either way it was a funny night that I really didn’t expect but it made for a good story and a great photo! This was taken right after James got me a cool Guinness hat…
Ha go Ireland…
I’m so glad I at least had a fun night because the next morning I had a pretty nasty hangover. I think I now know not to hang out too long with an complete Irish family because they will drink you under the table and then some. …Although next year I am ready with a cool hat and an Irish scarf I picked up while listening to the bagpipes.
When it comes to finding work, I have been hitting the pavement hard. I guess with the combo of being a foreigner and living during a mass recession, I should expect it to be difficult. Sadly my personality makes me think differently, so I keep finding myself heavily disappointed in situations I just can’t control. Thankfully I have started working with a recruiter who has sent me out for interviews, which is a huge step from not hearing anything about all of the jobs I have applied for. Long story short about the one and only interview I have been on for the hotel business. Basically I went on the first interview, the manager was awesome, thought the interview went great. Received a phone call to go on a second interview, went on that, it went great! Then things got weird, I couldn’t believe how long it was taking to make a decision. Finally they called and said we are sorry but its a NO, I was so heartbrokern. Yes I know, you can’t expect to get a job after only going on one interview but it would have been nice. As far as the job front goes I have a few more interviews lined up and have put in my two weeks notice at the restaurant (for a multitude of reason all based on the fact that I intend to be happy in what I do!).
Well I guess the last few things to talk about are my 28th birthday and Steve’s first visit abroad. I was honestly not looking forward to my birthday this year (which is extremely odd for me). I just felt very sad that I couldn’t have a big celebration, some people like to forget their birthday but I am just not one of them. Since i was young I always wanted to have a surprise party, of course you can’t really plan that for yourself so I guess I will just have to wait until “one day” arrives.
Considering that the bells and whistles were turned off this year, I did have a really nice birthday and am happy I could spend it with the few really great people I have met here so far. During the day on my actual birthday Steve and I went to the Natural History Museum, hopeful to see the Darwin exhibit sadly with no luck because it was sold out again. Either way we had fun wandering around and making comments about how silly they make science for kids now. My favorite quote of the day was the kid that said “but mom I don’t want T-Rexs to be alive” it was so cute and funny I couldn’t help but laugh.
Afterwards we went to the Tower of London, which is still one of my favorite places in London. I guess I just love the history and the Beefeaters and the ravens and of course the beheadings. I know its sick but its such a cool place! Oh and I got myself a crown, I mean it was my birthday I can pretend for a day at least.
So good times were had on my actual birthday. And the day after I had dinner with some of my new friends. I chose a place right on the river called Marco Polo, because of course I thought it was funny and I usually like to do things that amuse me. I think the funniest part is that in England the swimming pool game “marco polo” is not played. The best part is the only way that any of them have heard of it is because of ”Family Guy” genius! Either way I had a lovely meal with Matt, Cath, Steve, Dave and Tristan, they really made me feel like I have a few people I could count on in such a lonely city. Thank you guys for that!!!!
The whole gang at Marco Polo…
A few days after all the birthday nonsense, Steve and I were going to head up to Stonehenge and Windsor Castle. Unfortunately my lack of planning screwed us out of doing that so instead we went on a bus tour to Stratford upon Avon and Warwick Castle. As much as I hate tours and buses this one wasn’t bad. We never even really saw the tour guide, the price was reasonable and we had a free ride up and back with no worries.
Stratford upon Avon was interesting, a small little town that will always be in the history books because of the Bard himself. It was really neat to see his house and where his house was when he returned back (even though the guy that bought it pulled it down in spite of Shakespeare!) and even the place where he was christened and now buried.
They say this is the most authentic depiction of Shakespeare, as his wife had this bust done just after his death. BTW his birthday is coming up in case you want to celebrate its at the end of the month.
I know but it was in the center of town and I just couldn’t help myself!
Onward to Warwick Castle, said to be one of the biggest, oldest and most haunted in England. I was really excited to see Warwick castle, for some reason I was hoping to see some ghosts and well really get to explore the grounds like I was at an old dig site or something. This castle was actually lived in until the 1970s which is hard to imagine considering it has a dungeon and all. Afterwards it was sold off to the Tussaud’s family, yes the same one that owns all of the wax museums, who still own it today. The disappointing fact about the Tussaud family owning this particular property is that they have actually turned it into a theme type castle. Of course all of the original old dusty stuff is around, but now there are speakers everywhere and wax figures preparing for medieval battle and such, which is just really cheesy. The castle itself was awesome, but I could definitely do without the silly “Disney-like” crap.
So far Spring has been, well springy but its seems like it might settle down. Even with the few big disappointments I have run into I still feel like I am here for a reason and will continue along trying to keep my head up. Hopefully finding more time to get my thoughts out of my head and onto my blog more often. Especially in a few weeks when I have planned a trip with my mom to Holland to see the tulips!